Sex Dolls 101- Body Language

If you’ve been on social media lately you have no doubt ran across a post about sex dolls. Even mainstream media has picked up on the subject and is giving it quite a bit of attention.  But what exactly are these over-sized Barbie dolls made of? You may be surprised what this niche market has to offer. There are a variety of materials that cater to a wide range of tastes and budgets, knowing the difference between silicone, TPE and other materials will help make choosing a doll that’s just right for you much easier.

TPE doll Brandy

Sex dolls have come a long way in recent times. Although the concept of such a companion for sexual gratification goes back the 17^th century with Dutch sailors, modern technology has had it’s influence on these life-size dolls. In the 1970s companies began manufacturing inflatable sex dolls using latex and vinyl. In addition to these materials tin-cured silicone also became a popular choice for making more realistic dolls. In 2009 this all changed with the introduction of Real Doll.

Real Doll (now Abyss Creations, LLC) founder Matt McMullin originally formed his company to offer retailers a more realistic version of the store mannequin. His idea never caught on with retailers and production of realistic sex dolls took over. Today his Real Doll sex doll creations are well known throughout the world.  Originally constructed with tin-cured silicone which was prone to tearing easily and compression marks Matt and his team switched production to platinum silicone in 2009. This version of silicone is more stable, provides a more realistic feel of human skin and has better longevity. To this day platinum silicone is the standard form for silicone doll production in the US, China, Japan and other parts of the world.

Around 2012 TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer) came into use by Chinese sex doll manufactures.  This alternative is less expensive and preforms equally as well as platinum silicone. Although some may argue the differences between platinum silicone and TPE, TPE has quickly taken over the sex doll market by offering a less expensive option for consumers; to keep up with this demand some silicone doll manufacturers now offer TPE versions of their dolls. With two materials so similar how does one decide which one to consider when making a sex doll purchase? Here are some things to consider.

1.       Platinum silicone (P.S.) dolls are more expensive than TPE dolls of similar size. If you find a P.S. doll you like ask the vendor if it is available in TPE, this will reduce the cost of the doll if available.

2.       Both P.S. and TPE stain easily from dark clothing. The advantage of P.S. is the stain is absorbed into the doll body over time whereas TPE requires a product to remove the stain.

3.        P.S can be repaired easily with products found at a local hardware store, TPE requires a special glue typically only available through a vendor.

4.       P.S. tends to be firmer and have a uniform feel between manufacturers.

5.       TPE formulas vary between manufacturers. One brand of TPE doll may be softer than another but is generally softer than P.S.

6.       P.S. production and turnaround time is longer than TPE.

7.       Both are durable materials. TPE has more stretching capabilities than P.S.

8.       Both have memory. Creases and indentations can occur with tight clothing or sitting in one position too long, relieve the stress from the affected area and the crease or indentation will disappear.

9.       Both require the same maintenance. Powdering the dolls surface with talc or cornstarch is needed to keep the body smooth and silky. Regular washing is also necessary.

10.   The sexual experience is equally realistic with P.S. or TPE.

Some vendors offer “TPE Silicone” or “American Silicone” dolls, it is important to look for these terms when choosing a vendor. These vendors rely on the ignorance of the buyer and offer what appears to be a silicone doll but instead is made of TPE. The TPE used by the manufacturers of these dolls is untested and may contain chemicals that are harmful to humans.  

Perhaps the biggest complaint about TPE and P.S. is the weight. Heavy dolls can be a challenge to move around and get into position. Small 3’3” dolls can weigh in at around 35 lbs. whereas a 5’2” or taller dolls can weigh as much as 90 lbs. Be sure to pay attention to the weight of the doll before you make that final decision. If weight is an issue, there are other options.

Teddy Babes, a US based company, manufactures fully functional, anatomically correct plush dolls. These soft cuddly dolls can be customized, be posed in a variety of positions and weigh far less than TPE and P.S. dolls. Another unique doll is the EX-Lite.  The EX-Lite is the first foam production doll.  Weighing in at only 18 lbs. this doll comes in one configuration and disassembles for easy storage. Inflatable dolls are still popular for their low price and functionality. Pipedream Extreme carries a large selection of vinyl inflatable dolls ranging from $15-300 USD.  

Sex dolls are constructed from a variety of materials with different functionalities Deciding on which option works best for may seem confusing. The main objective is your happiness and which doll you find most attractive. Whether she vinyl, cloth, foam, P.S. or TPE may not have a bearing on your decision A purchase like this can be an investment as well as a commitment. Having knowledge of the similarities and differences between platinum silicone and TPE and other available products will better prepare you for what to expect when your dream girl finally arrives.

Please visit Mon Amour Toujours for more information. 

The Reviews Are In

Choosing a reputable vendor for you intimate partner alternative can be a challenging task. Make sure you buy from a TDF approved vendor with reviews. Take a look at what some of the Mon Amour Toujours customers said about their buying experience.

Trust Is Everything

I’ve seen a lot of new people discovering the world of sex dolls. There’s a lot of vendors out there and it’s difficult to figure out who you can trust. Mon Amour Toujours is a verified TDF* vendor with dozens of satisfied customers. Take a look at our home page to see some of the reviews. Save time and take the guess work out of finding the best vendor of realistic sex dolls.

*TDF is The Doll Forum. The Doll Forum only excepts vendors who provide OEM (original equipment manufacturer) dolls and have an outstanding reputation for customer service.

Realistic Sex Doll Improvements

This year promises to be exciting for new innovations in TPE and silicone sex dolls. There are some improvements on the horizon which are sure to be game changers. From lighter weight TPE, skeletal improvement and robotics realistic sex dolls will be more realistic than ever. But if you can't wait. Mon Amour Toujours has one of the newest products available. Meet Natasha.

Natasha is one of the newest additions to the Magnifique Collection. Here's what makes her so much different:

Natasha

1.The head installation has changed from the traditional way of a turning screws to fast plug type design, easy installation and disassembly is faster and head is more stable.

2. Pioneered Virgin pussy design with hymen. The end user can open her Virgin pussy in person.

3.The TPE material is improved, not greasy, no smell and lighter weight.

4.The new EVO skeleton can shrug shoulders and hold out a bosom, can do kneeling position, the lower leg can completely touch to the thigh, the feet can touch the buttocks..

If that isn't enough Natasha is absolutely beautiful! I'm sure you'll agree that these improvements make Natasha one of the most life like sex dolls available. Visit the Mon Amour Toujours shop today and make her yours!

Are you looking for a smaller version of the EVO realistic sex doll? Be sure to visit our affiliate site Little Sex Dolls and take a look at Belle. This site specializes in smaller and flat chested dolls. Get the same service that you would expect from Mon Amour Toujours. 

Some Thoughts

Several things happened over the past week that I felt necessary to address with a blog post. This post is a bit more personal and based on my experiences with customers.

Every morning I check my email. I live in Florida which is EST and many of my emails come from China or people who search Mon Amour Toujours in the wee hours of the morning. This morning I was a bit discouraged because I was notified by a Yelp email (which goes to a different email address than my site) that a customer left a negative review. I strive to give my utmost attention to everyone that contacts me. This particular customer reached out to me a couple months ago with questions all of which I answered in a timely fashion and freely sharing my knowledge and information. Throughout the entire process he was grateful for my help and assistance and mentioned several times he was glad he chose my company with his purchase, so his negative review was a mystery to me. I decided not to publish the review because the review mentioned nothing about the quality of his doll nor the way I handled his transaction- it merely stated he was unhappy with his doll and it was the worst thing he ever purchased. I decided to reach out to him to see if there was anything I could do to correct things for him. I sent an email letting him I was aware of his review and asked him to contact me to resolve any issues.

Later that morning I received his response and he again thanked me for all my help and assured me that his review in no way reflected me or the quality of the doll he chose. His response was based on how he felt about himself after receiving the doll- he felt embarrassed about his purchase, I let him know I understood his situation and suggested he contact me if he decided to sell his doll in the future- I have yet to hear back from him.

This sort of customer experience is the exception rather than the rule. I am honored to get to know many of my customers and receive great satisfaction helping them find a partner. Once in awhile someone will "just not get it". What I mean by this is there is a psychological experience that goes along with having  a doll- there is a connection that you develop which starts at the time of purchase and perhaps even before that. Many doll owners, myself included, relate to their dolls from more than just a sexual mind set. Some people develop feelings or a connection that comes with caring for their dolls. I can't say that I love my dolls in the romantic sense but I will say there is a connection. At this time it's difficult to explain but I will say that it is something unexpected.

Ivy Gets A Thumbs Up

It is my belief that the customer I mention above may have interpreted his thoughts as "embarrassing" but deep down realized he saw this doll as something more than just a "doll"or a sexual object. He also, at some level, understood that by purchasing the doll strictly for sexual gratification would have been an injustice to her; after all these dolls are very life like. When I started my research of dolls I noticed that many sites used the term "fuck dolls" and "sex dolls" for me this was a turn off. Also during my research I read stories of how many doll owners saw their dolls as companions and not just a way for them to get off. I also felt this was how I saw myself as a doll owner- someone searching for companionship. You may notice I use the term "intimate partner alternative" to refer to dolls on my site. I decided to use this term because this opens up the doll to more than just a sexual object; one thing I constantly wrestle with is having to use the term "sex doll" on my site and for advertising but if I didn't then my site would just get lost on the web.

Doll ownership is different for everyone and everyone has their reason for purchasing a doll. None of the reasons for purchasing a doll should be embarrassing. Fortunately there is an option available which allows an individual a way explore and express- in private- their intimate desires, in every form, in a way which they feel that could not be obtained from a traditional relationship. Dolls are a way to express sexuality in a safe environment without the pressure of feeling embarrassed or inadequate. Quite often I hear from customers after they receive their orders. They tell me how excited they felt when she arrived and how much they look forward to seeing their girl when they get home after a long day at work, I too have experienced these same feelings.

To end this on a high note, the week ended well with another customer review, this time a positive one; please take a few minutes to read Ivy's review here. If you order from Mon Amour Toujours or another site please take a few minutes to leave a review, if your review is not going to be positive contact your sales rep or the owner and give them a chance to correct the situation. If you should have any questions please feel free to contact me any time, I enjoy helping and assisting you with your decision- support@monamourtoujours.com

Wig Care Tips

Entering the world of dolls can certainly expose you to the feminine trials and tribulations. For most men having to shop for women's clothes or accessories is new territory. Beyond those areas hair care is probably an after thought. All doll manufacturers offer wigs with your purchase. Even though the wigs may not be the highest quality there are some things you can do to make sure they last a long time. 

Proper hair/wig care is just as  important to know as caring for your doll. It may be tempting to reach for your own brush and shampoo but these aren't necessarily the best option. Human hair care products are not intended for synthetic hair so using products designed for wigs is worth considering. Additionally a doll's wig absorbs the oils in TPE and silicone which can remain in the wig if not shampooed properly. Using combs, brushes, shampoos and conditioners designed for wigs will assure your girls hair will be taken care of properly.  

Wig Care Kit

Mon Amour Toujours offers wig care products and even a wig care video on the resources page. The video explains the proper way to shampoo and care for you dolls wigs with the products available. Even though I've hit the highlights of wig care here are some additional tips:

1. You may have to shampoo a wig two or more times to get it clean. Shampoo the wig in a sink several times if necessary until the water is clear.

2. Use the Revitalizing Mist generously. The Revitalizing Mist is a conditioner designed to maintain the synthetic hair. Spray on the wig and brush, the wig will be easier to brush with the conditioner. 

3. Brush starting at the ends first and work your way up. 

4. Brush wigs lying on a flat, smooth surface such as a counter top. This makes it easier to control the wig and removes tangles more thoroughly.

5. Never use a brush or comb on curly or wavy hair. Brushes and combs will stretch the hair fibers and pull the curl out, use your fingers as a substitute brush instead.

The original wig that comes with your doll should last quite a long time if cared for properly. Having an understanding of wig care is another way to protect your investment. Keep an eye out for more important doll care blogs, videos and emails. 

Safe Sex

Last blog article I discussed cleaning the internal cavities, but what if you don't want to deal with the clean up process after your intimate moments? Thinking about cleaning up after sex with your doll may take the spontaneity out of the experience so you may want to consider some other options.

Both male and female condoms are a way to get around orifice cleaning and are great way to enjoy sex with your dolls. Here are a few tips when using condoms:

Bliss enjoys sex with condoms

Male Condoms

1. Wash condoms prior to use. Many condoms use silicone based lubricants which can damage the TPE or silicone. You can clean the condom while it's on or- roll the condom down the first and middle fingers, wash with soap and water, dry with a towel or paper towel, apply a water based lubricant, roll back up.
2. Always use water based lubes.
3. Lubricate the orifice well. Cheap condoms can break if there is too much friction.
4. This still requires cleaning the orifice.

To avoid cleaning the orifice use a female condom.

Female Condoms

1. Also wash and dry thoroughly before use; same reason as the   male condom.
2. Discard the cervix ring.
3. Use water based lube inside of condom.

Inserting the FC

Female condoms are a great way to avoid the cleaning process. After the FC has been washed and dried apply powder to the outside with a brush just as you would your doll, you'll also need to prepare the orifice with powder. The best way I've found to do this is to get a heavy coating of powder on your index finger, insert it and work it around the inside, this will take a couple times to get the inside covered and smooth. Once this is done you insert the FC. Fold about 1/3 of the condom over your index finger and insert it into the opening; make sure your fingernails are smooth so you don't accidentally poke a small hole into the FC. Push the FC in as far as possible until the condom opening is against the labia majora or anal opening. Once it's inserted you're ready to go. You can still use a male condom but it's not necessary. The great thing about female condoms is they can be used several times.

However you decide to enjoy your sex with your Mon Amour Toujours girl condoms are a great alternative to avoid internal cleaning. Be sure to check back often for more helpful hints and  realistic sex doll information and updates.